Gender Perceptions Towards Disabled Women

The dominant patriarchal nature of the African society creates an interesting setting for marriage of women in the society, In contrast to the distinct gender perceptions identified in most cases, there is a range of opinions justified on biological and social grounds, as to whether disability can hinder men from being good marriage partners as it does for women. “In addition to opinions that women suffer most, women are believed to be the home makers, and if a woman in marriage is disabled then the home will not be complete”. (Female 3 said this).

“My wife was faced with so many big problems. Nobody wanted to invite her in their house or come to our house, she did not get anything form the family property, she did not manage the house fully” (male 1).

This statement reflects this man’s awareness of gender roles and relations and the cultural boundaries that exist for men and women in the society. It also shows that he feels women are treated worse if they have disabilities, as they are already dependent on others for their living. As one woman observed, women suffer more because, after marriage, family care is all left for a wife.

Two key aspects of stigmatized behaviour are identified in most cases: Those people performing actions in accordance with their perceptions (family, community, work colleagues); and the type of behaviour.

Existing gender relations should be recognized when considering behaviour towards disabled women. Negative behaviour towards disabled women is evident from both male and female family and community members. The domestic sphere is the focal point of family interactions and activities. Family members come into close contact with one another through these interactions and activities.

The everyday activities of cooking, eating, housework and sleeping arrangements are affected to varying degrees for most disabled women. The expected gender roles for women as carers and home-keepers are strictly upheld in some African cultures and hence culturally “ a woman with a disability is an eternal baby and she should never even think of getting married”