Abortion In Marriage

Many people think that abortion is an act of the unmarried young people who don’t wan to have children before marriage, there are so many cases of abortion in marriages. Many couples have different many reasons as to why they will opt for abortion in marriage. Some couples claim that even with the use of contraceptives the wife still conceived and they both were not ready or even prepared for the baby. This maybe due to the young age of the baby that they have, the other reason that makes many people to think of abortion in marriage is the financial aspect, the couple may have used a lot of money on raising the kid(s) that they already have and they may not be ready financially to afford another childbirth. A woman who may have had some health complications during the previous pregnancy may not be able to have another baby so soon due to the need of wanting to let the body get restored to normal. This may be a case like having a baby through Cesarian Section and getting pregnant before the required length of time is due. Some couples may have gotten children or a child while still schooling then they may have plans of going back to school after the kid has reached a certain age, when another pregnancy comes in, they may see this as an inconvenience, the only option they have is to have an abortion. There is also a question of the women wanting to go back to work after taking care of the baby for a certain period of time, when another pregnancy comes in the women may opt to abort rather than continue staying at home, this in most cases happens if the man has a job that cannot support the family well especially if there are other children in the family. Abortion is abortion, whether it is done with a lot of consultation or whether it is done “illegally” even for the married women who feel that abortion is the only and best option, there is still a lot of emotional imbalance that may even go to an extend of depression or stress. And this is what in most cases will haunt both the couples, that is the reason why people are advised to seek proper medical and also counseling services before performing an abortion. And also if the woman is married, it always the best option if the husband is aware and also supportive. If abortion is the only and best option then the couple need to be together to the end before and also after doing it.
 
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